If you can't do it because his phone is locked then leave your phone at home and make up an excuse to have to use his when you are both out somewhere. Tinder is a great one to test because it matches within proximity. Women whom he says he went to school with are strangers that he has been talking dirty to It seems you already have your answer that something untoward is happening.
Make a profile on some of the dating sites you suspect. If he is talking dirty to strangers online then he is up to something deceitful.
When you meet someone online and you start spending more and more time together, the last thing you’re thinking about is your online dating profile, let alone updating or deleting it.
You'll need to check their phone for common dating apps, conduct a Google search using personal details like their email address, and, if necesary, create test accounts on popular apps and sites to see if your signifigant other is returned as a potential match.but we got back together and i thought we were on our way to work things out. why is he on this site if not to look for someone else.. I was also thinking that If he goes on a date I just turn up. At the same time I could just join i and address the issue might as well while I'm there...😳 Leave. I was at some point doing things that scared me because I would never do such thing.But for some reason my gut told me something was off.yes! I found on his computer chat conversations he was having with random girls .. In one of those chats he introduces himself."such in such" from POF.. The profile says hes just there looking for friends, that he isnt seeking commitment or relationship. However all other info like city and age are also false. It was a kind of self harm which again nobody knows because I find it embarrassing.Unfortunately, dating sites and apps can allow men and women to have secret interactions and flirtations and in some cases, entire relationships, without the risk of their husbands or girlfriends catching them in the act.Fortunately, these sites aren't as safe and anonymous as would be adulterers and cheaters would like to believe.